CPTSD Fawn Responder And Narcissism : Match Made In Hell



The Electric Pour-Over Kettle, for Coffee Lovers: A Red Dot Design Award Winner, these beautiful EKG kettles feature a stunning minimalist design paired with the modern precision of variable temperature control. Now available in Matte Black, Matte White and Matte Black with Walnut handle and lid pull.

Main Features:

Variable Temperature Control – By turning the knob, you select your desired temperature ranging from 135°F to 212°F, and Stagg EKG does the rest. No more guessing degrees.

LCD Screen – See the temp. Be the temp. A discreet, black LCD screen indicates the desired “Set Temperature” and the “Real Time Temperature” with an illuminating element to show the heating progress.

Hold Option – When the toggle on the back is switched to HOLD mode, the Stagg EKG will maintain your desired temperature in either Fahrenheit or Celsius for 60 minutes. Perfect for when your hosting or easily forget when you turn the water on. When the toggle is not in HOLD mode, the kettle will go to sleep after reaching the set temperature.

Brew Stopwatch – After your water has heated, use EKG’s built-in Brew Stopwatch to time your extraction.

Additional Features:

Precision pour spout
Counter balanced-handle just like the original Fellow stovetop kettle
Celsius/Fahrenheit option
1-liter capacity
Stainless steel body
Small, minimalist base
Important note for customers outside the US & Canada – The Fellow EKG Kettle is currently only compatible with outlets in the United States and Canada. EKG Kettles used outside of these countries will not function properly and will void the included warranty.


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Find yourself first as the witnessing presence of awareness in the background of experience. Recognize yourself as that and be that knowingly. ‘I’ is the name we give to the knowing, aware, perceptual element of the experience. Simply know to be; be aware of being. Awareness of being is happiness itself. Awareness has no form but assumes all forms of experience. Why do I believe that I am a temporary, finite separate self and suffer? This infinite awareness must seem to become a finite mind. The infinite cannot know the finite directly, so must do so through the agency of the mind. The faculties of perception and thought are the means by which the one appears as many. You, finite mind, are the localized activity through which infinite awareness is able to actualize a segment of its infinite potential in form. As such, the finite mind is the instrument of creativity, of love. This meditation has been taken from Rupert’s five-day retreat at home in February 2021.


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Neuroscientist James Fallon is a self-styled “hobbit scientist.” The rules are simple: Don’t talk to the press, and don’t go out of your area of expertise. But when a fascinating new brain scanner enters the lab, Fallon can’t resist. He breaks both rules and learns much more about himself than he bargained for. Scientists, writers, and artists take to the stage to tell stories about their relationship to science. The result is a collection of poignant, hilarious and unpredictable tales sure to intrigue and surely hard to forget. Presented in collaboration with The Moth. Watch them all in The Moth at WSF Series. Original Program Date: June 4, 2011, The World Science Festival gathers great minds in science and the arts to produce live and digital content that allows a broad general audience to engage with scientific discoveries. Our mission is to cultivate a general public informed by science, inspired by its wonder, convinced of its value, and prepared to engage with its implications for the future.

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The Fastest, Easiest Test For Narcissism — Up to date: “The Smiling No Test”


0:00 Exploitativeness And Entitlement As The More Dangerous Traits Of A Narcissist

3:34 There Must Be An Invasion Of Your Boundary

7:49 The Fastest No Test

12:20 You Saying No Shouldn’t Cause A Negative Emotional Reaction In Any Normal Person

14:25 Narcissists Will Frequently Covertly Coerce You Into Giving Way More Of Your Time And Attention Than They Deserve

18:49 Over Assumption Of Intimacy Is Also A Boundary Break

21:23 Wrapping Up


The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition, Text Revision (DSM-5-TR), is the most comprehensive, current, and critical resource for clinical practice available to today’s mental health clinicians and researchers. DSM-5-TR includes the fully revised text and references, updated diagnostic criteria, and ICD-10-CM codes since DSM-5 was published in 2013. It features a new disorder, Prolonged Grief Disorder, as well as codes for suicidal behavior available to all clinicians of any discipline without the requirement of any other diagnosis. With contributions from over 200 subject matter experts, this updated volume boasts the most current text updates based on scientific literature. Now in four-color and able to authenticate each printed copy, DSM-5-TR provides a cohesive, updated presentation of criteria, diagnostic codes, and text. This latest volume offers a common language for clinicians involved in diagnosing and studying mental disorders. It facilitates an objective assessment of symptom presentations across various clinical settings—inpatient, outpatient, partial hospital, consultation-liaison, clinical, private practice, and primary care. Stay current with these crucial updates in DSM-5-TR: • Fully revised text for each disorder with updated sections on associated features, prevalence, development and course, risk and prognostic factors, culture, diagnostic markers, suicide, differential diagnosis, and more.• Addition of Prolonged Grief Disorder (PGD) to Section II—a new disorder for diagnosis• Over 70 modified criteria sets with helpful clarifications since the publication of DSM-5• Fully updated Introduction and Use of the Manual to guide usage and provide context for critical terminology• Considerations of the impact of racism and discrimination on mental disorders integrated into the text• New codes to flag and monitor suicidal behavior, available to all clinicians of any discipline and without the requirement of any other diagnosis• Fully updated ICD-10-CM codes implemented since 2013, including over 50 coding updates new to DSM-5-TR for substance intoxication and withdrawal and other disorders• Updated and redesigned Diagnostic Classification This manual is a valuable resource for other physicians and health professionals, including psychologists, counselors, nurses, and occupational and rehabilitation therapists, as well as social workers and forensic and legal specialists. The new DSM-5-TR is the most definitive resource for diagnosing and classifying mental disorders. In our ongoing effort to counteract unlicensed copies of our products, we have included a fiber-coded security sticker on the book, enabling our customers to verify the authenticity of this book by scanning the sticker. Authentic copies will direct customers to the APA Publishing website once the security sticker is scanned.

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Your Emotions Are The Gateway To Doing Real Shadow Work

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Insights from psychology and philosophy to assist humans with life on this here earth.

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Insights from psychology and philosophy to assist humans with life on this here earth.

Don’t disobey lockdown orders: If you have a cough or a cold for God’s sake stay at home.
I’m not going to play the game of endlessly defending what I didn’t say by people mischaracterizing me as a troll tactic. But:

1. There is a virus
2. Obviously, it’s not the flu, stop commenting that like I said it was. I do read some research and I’m not stupid (despite all indications to the contrary)
3. Yes I know we don’t know what the R0 is, not the case fatality rate, yes I know it may mutate, yes I understand flattening the curve. Thank you

To repeat the points made in this video:

1. stress and fear is being leveraged against the population to force them to accept measures they would never normally accept: contact tracing apps, medical passports, and goalpost moving of civil liberties. This is NOT an acceptable way of handling the situation. This needs clear, sober, and open debate, not appeals to people’s baser instincts and sentimentality.
(See “clap for the NHS”- kindergarten behavior)
2. Do people understand that crashing the global economy will create far more illness, pain, and death or not? Is there any way to make them understand or will they just pick a side, clamp hands over ears and shout “ra ra ra”?
3. Our rights are already being eroded! Look at the unprecedented censorship of MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS citing published research!! Look at the governments telling Doctors how to write up death certificates!
You can’t claim to be pro medicine and pro-science and IGNORE these simple facts!

I’m not going to argue with every faceless, content less anonymous profile in the comments, my position was made perfectly clear in the video. If anyone demonstrates they want just want to unload their opinion without listening first, which is their right, I’m going to go ahead and block them, which is mine.

I apologize for ranting, but This situation is getting ridiculous. We must push back or we will get mugged off.


13 Signs You Are Having Sex with a Narcissist and how to leave them. A Psychologists perspective.


Dr. Becky Spelman is a top Psychologist in London; Becky is the Clinic Director for Private Therapy Clinic, which has clinics all around central London, including; Harley Street, Wigmore Street, Bank, Earls Court & Canary Wharf. Becky uses Psychodynamic Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), and Mindfulness to treat a range of difficulties with a particular interest in Borderline Personality Disorder and the difficulties that go with this condition, such as relationship difficulties, anxiety, depression, low-self esteem, social anxiety, fear of public speaking, fear of intimacy, interpersonal difficulties, anger, body image issues, eating disorders and addictions.

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Combat Narcissism: How To Test For Narcissism And How To Fight Back


0:00 – intro to combatting narcissism 0:55 – how to test for narcissism 2:55 – smiling no test for narcissism 4:56 – the mirror test (dangerous) 5:58 – observe the emotional intensity of narcissist 7:12 – the synopsis of 4 step test strategy 8:39 – what’s in room 101? 10:44 how to combat narcissists 12:01 don’t EVER let them do this! 14:49 golden rule with narcissists 16:00 value system as a shield 17:29 the value congruence narcissism check





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(Live Q and A )How to distinguish between normal shame and toxic shame

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How to Spot the Hidden Signs Someone Is Gaslighting

Learn the hidden signs someone is gaslighting.

“That never happened.”
“You’re too sensitive.”
“You’re overreacting.”
“It was just a joke.”

Gaslighting. It’s a term you’ve probably heard before, but the signs can be confusing. In this video, Dr. Ramani Durvasula and MedCircle host Kyle Kittleson discuss…

What is gaslighting?
What does gaslighting behavior look like?
Why do narcissists gaslight / what is the goal of a narcissist when they gaslight?
What are the 3 signs someone is gaslighting?
What is deflection?
What impact does this type of emotional manipulation have on someone’s mental health?
What should someone do if they are experiencing this type of narcissistic abuse?
What SHOULDN’T someone does when they are experiencing gaslighting?
Why don’t narcissists like getting caught?
What is the #1 surefire sign that you are being gaslighted?

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10 Things that Narcissists Say | Narcissistic Statements and Corresponding Thoughts


This video answers the question: What are some statements that narcissists make and what’s the thinking behind those statements? A narcissistic personality disorder is a Cluster B personality disorder in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual.

It has nine symptom criteria, five of which are required for a diagnosis. 1: Grandiose sense of self-importance 2: Fantasies 3: Special or unique 4: Requires excessive admiration 5: Sense of entitlement 6: Manipulative 7: Lacks empathy for others 8: Often envious 9: Arrogant attitudes or behaviors Narcissism: There are two types of narcissism: With grandiose narcissism, we see characteristics like being extroverted, socially bold, self-confident, having a superficial charm, being resistant to criticism, and being callous and unemotional. Vulnerable narcissism is characterized by shame, anger, aggression, hypersensitivity, a tendency to be introverted, defensive, avoidant, anxious, depressed, socially awkward, and shy.